The perks of being a wallflower
He is an introvert. From childhood neither he talks much, nor he shares his feelings with others. But he is silently and deeply in love with his loved ones. He never expressed his feelings to anyone, to whom he loves.
He doesn’t know how to show/express how much he loves them!
He doesn’t know how to console his father, everything will be fine, I am with you Papa.
He doesn’t know how to tell his mother how much he misses food made by her…
He doesn’t know how to tell his sister, she is everything to him.
He doesn’t know how to tell his girlfriend, he loves her but he doesn’t know how to use cheesy words, how to pamper her to make her feel good but he is always there for her.
What sucks ?
Being such a man sucks literally who has no capability to show any of his emotions, he is shy, he doesn’t talk much, he never shares his bad moments with anyone but only happy moments with his loved ones.
It sucks because people usually tag such man as irresponsible, emotionless, who doesn’t care feelings of others, who just wants to live for himself, who is selfish and blah blah! Such judgements about him without understanding him deeply sucks, it’s irritating.
He is just another silent person and loves silence too in his life.
But that doesn’t mean, he is emotionless.
He never says, I am with you Papa, but instead he says, I have enough money Papa, you don't need to worry, I can manage somehow, you take this which I have saved. Is he irresponsible? Isn’t it his silent love for his father?
He never says, I miss you and love you mom, but his phone’s password is his mother’s phone number. Isn’t it love? Isn’t it a warm emotion?
He never says, you are everything to me my sister but instead worry for her future silently. Isn’t it love?
He never pampers his girlfriend, he never uses cheesy lines, but he wishes to marry her at the right time. Isn’t it true love ?
Inspite of all ups and downs, he never shows emotions, he never cries.
But wait! Did you try to look into his teary eyes which he tries to hide from every person? Did you try to feel his emotions before blaming him as emotionless?
Did you try to feel his love for you before blaming that he doesn’t care for the feelings of others?
Did you try to feel he too craves for love, he too needs love to feed his soul before leaving him alone giving reason that he doesn’t know how to show emotions?
Did you ever try to feel pain in his silence before saying he doesn’t get hurt?
This sucks being an introvert Man!
People want to change him for their needs, their relationships, their love, but they don’t understand he will never change and will never force others to change for himself.
Accept him as he is. Such man expect nothing in return but just a trust from you that he loves you but doesn’t know how to show it.
Deep love, deep silence that’s what they prefer, only need to understand them, they are the most beautiful creatures on this planet.
Never lose them only because of the reason that they don’t know how to show their love and emotions.
Behind a silent man, there is an incredible human being.
Respect their silence and presence too!
